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Mia's avatar

love these! i think i’d like to use them as journal prompts aswell to ask myself some questions šŸ«¶šŸ¼

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ella's avatar

aw thank you mia!! happy journaling ā˜ŗļøšŸ©·

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Nawal's avatar

I was thinking the same way šŸ¤

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ella's avatar

YAY 🩷

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soft static's avatar

I am going to do that too.

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ella's avatar

makes me happy!! ā¤ļø

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Julia's avatar

That’s a great Idea… I’m gonna do that

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Connie's avatar

I am too. Thankful!ā¤ļø

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ella's avatar

happy journaling to you as well julia šŸ¤—

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Please no!'s avatar

This! I was really uncomfortable with the fact that I couldn't answer these questions right away.... even to myself😭

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lenaamelia's avatar

Me toošŸ«¶šŸ¾

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jav's avatar

i asked these questions to myself and i spend a great time doing it! i hardly recommend it :) thaks a lot <3

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ella's avatar

aw thank you! 🄹

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ShaTha's avatar

I love the idea I will try it, Thank youuu🩷

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Rinna's avatar

I started questioning myself in the process and realized even I,myself don't know me or try to know me that well. I was so used to waiting for someone to find out about me when I don't even acknowledge these little pieces of me. So thank you for putting these questions šŸ’—šŸ’—

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ella's avatar

aw i’m glad you were able to gather these thoughts rinna! i hope you enjoy getting to know yourself better through these questions šŸ¤—

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Didi's avatar

same omg

i cant even answer some of the questions myself

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paula's avatar

this is amazing and completely agree!! just to admire a person by their history, regardless of how great, tragic, or interesting we can find something to learn or attach from that person. just beautiful to know someone even if it’s not someone we necessarily love

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ella's avatar

beautifully said paula thank you 🄹🌷what’s life without human connections!

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isabel amalie's avatar

i love this! deep conversations feels like exchanging parts of our souls

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ella's avatar

exactly!! thank you beautiful 🌷

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IzzyBabes's avatar

I love this so much as someone who feels the exact same way. I’ve been meeting a lot of new people in my life lately and questions of ā€œwhat are good questions to ask to get to know someone?ā€œ has been on my mind consistently so the fact that you’ve answered my exact question having used your personal experience of the same passion is a little gift for me!

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ella's avatar

AW i’m so glad you resonated with it šŸ’Ÿ so nice to know i share the same sentiments with people like you!

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Leah Mendez's avatar

Lately I ask people what they’re most excited about, cuts right through small talk!

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ella's avatar

i love that!!

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leilani maria's avatar

today, i walked to the park that is just shy of 15 minutes away from my dorm. i called one of my best friends (who i hadn't gotten the chance to reconnect with for months) and we talked for 3 hours about life, love, and all of the itty bitty things that lie in its intersection. having a deep conversation with her as i soaked up the sun and sunk into the grass underneath the shade of the tree above me was so incredibly healing <3 i love this article! thank you for sharing!

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ella's avatar

that sounds sooo healing šŸŒ… thank you for sharing that!

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Yuki's avatar

inspired to curate my own

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biby's avatar

these are amazing!!! made me smile immediately

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ella's avatar

yay thank you! it means a lot 🄹

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ella's avatar

thank you! <3

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Sophie Boldt's avatar

i completely relate to this and adore the considerate and kind way that you even shared these personal and impactful questions! it reflects your kind heart and soul to share these beautiful opportunities to connect deeply with others and i’ll be using them!! thank you and bless you!! x

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ella's avatar

awww that’s so sweet of you to say sophie! i’ve had the list of questions for so long and just really wanted to share it with people like you! thank you for readinggg 🩷

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Evelina's avatar

I'm not joking, just yesterday I was thinking of creating such a list myself and I even started with some simple questions already. Tyy for these!!

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ella's avatar

AW that’s lovely evelina! go grow that listtt <3 would love to get questions from you as well!

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Hannah's avatar

asked these with a newer friend and I think we both learned so much about ourselves and each other! was honestly one of the best conversations I’ve been able to have with someone in so long, thank you!! :)

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ella's avatar

i am so so happy for you. thank you for being here! 🄹🩷

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Fierce. Feminine. Unfiltered.'s avatar

I do something similar! Your words were so relatable. Thank you for sharing 🩷

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ella's avatar

thank YOU! ā£ļø

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j. a. anderson's avatar

"how beautiful is it that questions are the windows to one’s mind, one’s heart?"

I absolutely agree and loved this article as I am one that loves to ask questions especially to self.

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ella's avatar

thank you beautifulllll šŸ’Œ

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Al's avatar

as someone who’s been composing my own list of good questions i am OBSESSED with these

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ella's avatar

YAY thank youuu!

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